So when I was talk to my mom she said it sounded like "mean Caity" was saying "you don't want me" as in we don't want her. I can see that. However, what she was REALLY saying is "you don't want me" as in "you don't want to mess with me." How can I tell? Trust me I can tell...and the first time I asked her and she provided body language that made me think she was going to start a fist fight. So anyway...Caity knows we want her, and Caity also knows we don't want to mess with her.